TDL™ Collective

Once a month, we meet to make sure the life you’re living still belongs to you.

Not the life you fell into.
Not the life you’re maintaining out of habit.
Not the life that looks acceptable from the outside.

But the one you chose — intentionally, honestly, and on your terms.

This space exists so you don’t drift through your life unconsciously.
So you stay aware of what you want, why you want it, and whether the way you’re living still reflects that.

Before you read anything else, I want to be clear about one thing.

This is not a place to look at my life — or anyone else’s — and decide whether you want it. I designed my life for me — based on who I am, what I value, what I enjoy, and what I’m not interested in carrying. It’s about understanding what you want and learning how to stay aligned with it.
Not to become someone else.

And you deserve the same freedom.

The work here is not comparison.
It’s learning how to study yourself — your preferences, your rhythms, your standards — so you can design a lifestyle that fits you.
And I would never expect you to want someone else’s life when you’re meant to design your own.

We meet to make sure the life you’re living is still the one you chose.

You come because you care about how you’re living.
Because you value intention.
And because you’re willing to pause — just long enough — to make sure your life still belongs to you.

If you’re here, you’re probably not looking for more information.
You’re likely looking for space.

Space to think.
Space to recalibrate.
Space to come back to yourself without having to explain or perform.

That’s why I created the TDL™ Collective.

A note on values

Part of living intentionally is recognizing that our lives don’t exist in isolation.

A portion of the proceeds from this space is directed toward causes I’m deeply committed to — organizations that support widows, orphans, the unhoused, and those working to free people from modern-day slavery, and that also help them build businesses so they can sustain themselves long-term.

This isn’t charity as an afterthought.
It’s an extension of how I believe a well-designed life shows up in the world.

Let me tell you what this is — plainly.

The TDL™ Collective is a private, lounge-style space where we gather once a month to explore what it actually means to live a distinctive lifestyle.

Not the aesthetic version.
Not the curated version.
Not the version you post.

But your life.
On your terms.
Defined by your vision.

This isn’t about becoming someone else.
It’s about leading your own life with intention.

What “distinctive” really means here

I want to be clear about this from the beginning.

A distinctive lifestyle has nothing to do with how things look on the outside.

It’s about:

• how you make decisions

• how you choose yourself without guilt

• how you create rhythms that support your life

• how you stop living reactively

Distinctive is internal before it’s ever external.

And this space exists to help you explore that — slowly, honestly, and without pressure.

How the Collective works

We meet once a month, live, online.

Each month has a focus — but I don’t announce those in advance.
That’s intentional.

This isn’t something you prepare for intellectually.
It’s something you experience.

Each month builds on the last, quietly and naturally — the same way real life does.

Between gatherings, there’s no pressure to keep up.
No assignments to turn in.
No weekly accountability.

This is not another thing to manage.

It’s a place you come back to.

About the monthly gathering

I want this to feel different from the meetings you rush into or multitask through.

So I invite you to prepare for this time as if it matters.
Because it does.

You might choose to:

• log in from a quiet, stationary place with your favorite blanket or scarf

• sit somewhere comfortable and undisturbed

• decide ahead of time what you’ll wear, not for appearance, but for intention

• have a drink you enjoy, a light snack, maybe a candle or soft lighting

Not because you have to.
But because how you arrive shapes how you receive.

This isn’t about rules.
It’s about honoring yourself.

What we do during our time together

The monthly gathering is a pause.

A moment to:

• reflect

• listen

• recalibrate

• reconnect with your own direction

I guide the conversation.
You take what’s meant for you.

There’s no pressure to speak.
No expectation to perform.
No right way to show up.

Just presence.

Who this space is for

This is for you if:

• you’re done chasing other people’s definitions of success

• you want structure without rigidity

• you value depth over noise

• you’re ready to live intentionally, even if you’re still figuring out what that means

You don’t need to be fixed.
You don’t need to be motivated.

You just need to be willing to show up honestly.

Who this is not for

This probably isn’t for you if you’re looking for:

• coaching or therapy

• step-by-step life plans

• constant accountability

• fast transformation

That’s not what this space holds.

The rhythm

The live gathering takes place on the first Sunday of each month at 7:00 PM (Eastern Standard Time/EST). Live online Come as you are — just come present.

Membership & access

The TDL™ Collective is offered as a paid membership.

You can choose monthly, quarterly, biannual, or annual billing — whatever best supports you.

Paid-in-full options include preferred pricing and additional consideration as the Collective evolves.

All billing is handled automatically through the website.

One more thing I want you to know

I’m not here to collect followers.
I’m here to guide women who are ready to lead their lives with clarity and intention.

This space is not loud.
It’s not crowded.
And it’s not for everyone.

But if something in you exhaled while reading this —
You’re likely exactly where you need to be.

Enter the TDL™ Collective

A place to return to.
A life defined on your terms.